H A T E

• leave?

“” Throughout life, people will make you mad, disrespect you, treat you bad and leave you when you need them the most. This will always be in their  CONTROL.

One is defined by the  CHOICES  one makes and not by the POWER one possesses.

On the other hand, power grants people the authority to make decisions that can wound you for life. In turn, that sense of authority not only affects them, but infects and alters your  ‘fate’ . 

”People will come and go, it’s just a phase of life...” so we’re told. 

The truth is, loving someone dearly (whether it’s your friend or someone you like) will not necessarily be reciprocated to the same extent. 

This cycle is recurrent and will never seize to exist;  inevitable.  *sighs*

THEY  will walk out in fear, mortification or even in pity. People tend to turn their backs on chapters that didn’t pan out too well for them. 

As authority gives you power and control, it  nullifies obligation. ©  But humans should remember that they are not only held responsible for what they did, but also for what they  DID NOT DO. 

“Leaving me was your choice. whether I deserved it or not, I do have to face the consequences alone.” © 

• hate?

How do you move forward in life?

It is never THE END...

“” Tarzan can’t get to the next branch if he doesn’t let go of the first one. 

A world where everyone is kind, generous, mindful, reflective and most importantly CONSIDERATE.  This is what we call a  UTOPIA.

Negativity, on the other hand, gets more powerful as bad experiences keep piling up. This can spark a series of everlasting hate towards someone.

People have the ability to turn a snowball of positivity into an avalanche of negativity. © 

However “” holding on to hate is like grasping hot 

coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else, yet you are the one who gets burnt. 

Abandoning and leaving are two of the most simplest and easiest ways out. Whilst getting over hate is truly exhausting for a person. 

Hence, anyone can get away with spreading negativity, leaving behind the consequences for just one person to suffer. 

• justice?

Do people get away with such things? 

People can be sympathetic but refrain themselves from being empathetic. This is not an involuntary action, rather it’s a commitment. 

One will only understand and start being empathetic when one has been through the exact same experiences. 

The more empathetic someone feels, the more they’ll learn from what they did and it will help them in not repeating the same mistakes in the future. 

Self-awareness and being reflective are two majorly underrated qualities that are ignored in this time and age. Your decisions will always be in your control, but  the effects are always extensively broad. 

Yes, you’re driving the car, but remember you’re not the only one on the road. Steer the wheel wisely. © 

(ika; gentle)

-SHAURYA GULATI